Sunday 22 July 2012

Bridesmaid ideas.. by Mona

Hi Girls,
We could also do the following to add a western twist: the bodice/corset can be a simple light gold embroidered with bits of purple/lavender/lilac, and the skirt has more of the purple/lavender/lilac. we all wear different shades of purple.
thoughts??
Mona





Friday 22 June 2012

Nutting out the bridesmaid's outfits


It has taken a while to understand how Buddhist weddings are conducted, but we are learning as we go.

I have decided to go with the local Sri Lanken designer, Purnima Abeyratne. He work is tidy and trendy and she is highly recommended by friends who have used her for their own weddings. Niro's mum wants me to use a local designer. Her and others like her are as good as they get I am told.

I understand the since the wedding is only around 5 hours in it's duration, there might be little time to change into another outfit. Preferably the bridesmaids should stand out looking pretty and pretty distinguishable.  So it might be just the one outfit.


The link to Purnima's site is http://www.purnimaabeyratne.lk

I will be dressed in the Indian drape so have a good at 'Low Country Brides'. She only tailors the clothes and gives design advice so we can look at pourchasing material either locally or from India too. I definitely want to give the Bridesmaids attires an Indian twist. Perhaps the blouses could be or some indian handicrafts. From the images it seems like there are many ways to drape the sari - to make it look more like a dress. We could even do monotone colours of a chiffon textile with  jari borders in gold?

I want to have the Design plans drafted before the middle of July in 3 weeks from now ie 15th of July 2012. So that when Niro's parents come to Auckland (they are currently in Sri Lanka) I will have something to talk about, and also by the time I come down in early September, it will be easier to orchestrate a clear plan.

So really outlandish designs that I came across on Googling indian-fusion came up with the results below. Obvously I think they will need to be full length.

IDEAS PEOPLE! :)







Saturday 16 June 2012

The Good Old Days

This group of girls' fiery ways set the 'mood'
In the Billimoria Hood.
When try as they should
To be well behaved and good
Be rebellious they would.

Once the kind and graceful Puja found that a bird had died
She cried and cried, while we all sighed
At the rose garden
Where an apt burial
She had commissioned.

Geetha held her own
In the class-room
Where she was the natural choice
With a singing voice
Of a nightingale

Hetal - 'handle with care'
Had the most beautiful silky hair
With a smile to compare
Could be mischievousness though quiet
and was a sheer delight

Meen-akshi the fish-eyed
Was coolness - personified
And danced to the beat of
Only her drum,
A friend you could count on.

Zeenat - Jughead Jones
A bundle of fun and bones
Curly locked and thin
This giggling goblin
Had a heart of gold.

Avani, Frog-andes?
what could be said of her
I wonder? ;)











Friday 1 June 2012

Meens Views ;) and some quick math





'hey hun..i loved attached ones frm the link u sent...I think u can change colors and tit-bits but these 3 will look gorgeous on u!!

I am a little more over the top than sober..as u know!!! But pic 7 might be PERFECT for u!! U can work on the pic 12 colors and design of corset but I like the skirt...and pic 10 with slight changes will also look gorgeous!!

Anyways..if you are going to india and wld like to meet a designer in bombay..let me know. I can give u references of sm amazing ones' 

Girls,
Let me introduce you to another dear friend of mine, bridesmaid Mona an old friend since my uni days here, we also flatted together in London. Zeenat and Hetal have met her and the rest of you might have heard of and seen pics on Facebook of us, but you'll all meet soon :). We were talking yesterday and we think that to have dresses when I'm in sari might be too much of a clash. As a compromise it would be nicer to have something indiany/sari for the wedding, which really isn't even a long affair, it's from evening to night, and then change when I change after the ceremony..into something of your own choice? What say? I too like the dresses short listed below and infact something like 10 would look nice?

the other option is for us all to wear cream, mine would be pure cream and gold with all of you wearing a spectrum of shades blouses, with cream saris??? I'm just brainstorming here. Puji loved the shades in cactii colours,

Okay can anyone give me suggestions as to what sort of costs can me expected for the kind of outfits below in Indian rupees. I do plan to come to India in August.

I believe that the designer below Purnima's rates from a 2008 wedding of my friend were as follows

'Poornima charges for the sewing & design only.
The material charges & the sarees you buy are on top of the following.
Also the cost probably depends on the complexity of the design etc.

Poornima for design & sewing for our wedding:
Bridesmaids Rs 4,500 each
Bridal Jacket 3,500
going away jacket 2500
homecoming jacket 2000

Underskirts for above 3 x600 each'
For the makeup I have in mind another company - the lady is called Ramani, here are her rates
'As for Ramani, she & her assistants come to the hotel & do the hair, makeup & saree draping of you & bridesmaids. She charges per bride & per bridesmaid/flower girl.
I don't remember her charges...I remember a cost of ~Rs25,000? (but its a guess at best).'

If you gals what to change we'll have a makeup artist at our disposal. 

xoxo
Me

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Sunday 27 May 2012

Bridesmaids Dresses Ideas

The creative brainstorming sessions will have to start: so how do I want my bridesmaids to be dressed? I realize that I would like to use shades of purple, lilac, lavender complemented with shades of cream an gold. The next question is what style? Indian, Sri Lanken or Western. If dresses then short or long? I have just spend the last half hour collating some pictures that stood out...to serve as a starting point for this discussion:
Love the simple elegance of satin here

Indian stuff always looks good, so shades of indian outfits like above here might be a good look?

Or a sari with sexy blouse?

Aren't they a happy bunch?

Loved these shades of purple and pastels in the Kardeshian wedding could we go with these shades in saris, didn't like the dresses here though.

An example of a simple Sri Lanken Bridesmaid's dress, we could use the theme and amp it up

Pretty Sri Lanken wedding, could keep things simple and uniform, how boring though huh?

The same party as above.

Ahh I loved the lilacs in the top pic here

Rather simple but cute indian stuff to compliment the bride's dress (pink)


Satin really does look sleek an nice..we could try something like this halter necked for eg in shades of purple and creme?




What fun hehe!

And finally some traditional photos of Sri Lanken brides to show you what to expect
My sari could look something like this. Yes I should mention that since it is a buddist wedding, it will be a sari and head veil too. but not the elaborate head pieces she has on.


The entourage that are present at the entrance of a Sri Lanken wedding, usually as the Bride and Groom are entering, a procession of Kandayan dancers and drummers follow along with these girls holding up lotuses.


Last but not the least some western bridal dresses I liked by designer Clare Pettibone aren't they simply exquisite!


A Sri Lanken Wedding - What To Expect


Women in white and gold saris and sparkling headdresses step forward with plates of mango.
Men in turbans and sarongs, red and white, beat drums and chant.


As she arrives at her high-society wedding at a luxury hotel, the bride is given a welcome fit for royalty.
For the groom's entrance, dancers somersault in the air and spin round him.
The singers and dancers from Kandy in Sri Lanka's central highlands could have stepped straight from the courts of the last kings of Ceylon.
Nadini Premadasa is a young singing star, and some of the country's best-known musicians, TV stars and celebrities are here to see her marry Madura Abeyesinghe.
Yet at the heart of this glitzy ceremony, in the corner of this grand ballroom, is a simple platform that you might find in any ordinary Sinhalese village.
It is on this poruwa that a bride and groom come together in marriage, with a Buddhist holy man presiding and chanting.
The couple take part in a series of rituals as their close families pray, their heads bowed.
Six young girls in white, known as the jayamangala gatha, come to bless the marriage, one playing the violin while others sing.

WATCH: Charles Haviland at Nadini Premadasa's society wedding
The bride's father ties the nuptial knot, briefly joining Nadini and Madura's little fingers with a thread considered sacred.
Then both fathers pour holy water on the couple's hands to mark the moment of their marriage.
Rings are exchanged - as in Western societies - and the bridegroom places a jewelled necklace around his bride's neck.
She is presented with a cloth, the sari she will wear in a couple of day's time at the ceremony known as the Homecoming, hosted by the groom's family.
A coconut is broken and an oil lamp is lit, symbolising good luck, and a new start.
Then the festivities begin.
With one hand each on the bottle, Nadini and Madura pour champagne into a pyramid of glasses, before greeting the guests, table by table.
This is a huge day for them and it seems no expense has been spared on the entertainment, the food and drink, or the styling of the bride.
"Every girl has her dreams," Dhananjaya Bandara, the stylist for the bride and five bridesmaids, tells the BBC.
"Sri Lankan girls dream of their bridal day, so they are spending more money for that."
Couple's fingers tied together with stringThe couple incorporated many traditional elements into the ceremony
He explains that Sri Lankans usually either choose a "high country" styling for their weddings - drawing on the traditions of Kandy - or, as today, a "low country" one, where the bride's clothing is closer to Indian tradition.
He has said he styled Nadini "like a Roman princess".
The groom and his close friends are dressed in an entirely Western style.
While some Western customs are popular, best man Hasitha Wijesekera says it is important to hang on to more traditional Sri Lankan elements.
"Though we have mixed weddings, it doesn't mean that we have just let go of our cultural values," he says.
"I think it's a very good thing to have the poruwa ceremony and there's a lot of meaning in it."
Love match
Nadini, being a famous singer, gives a wedding surprise to her new husband by getting up to sing with the band, The Gypsies, one of the most successful in the country.
They play and sing remarkably convincing versions of popular love songs.
Bride in the hallway with view of her trainArranged marriages are less frequent than they used to be
At one point the president's son, Namal Rajapaksa, arrives.
He is present as the bride and groom sign the register to become legally man and wife, and his brief visit creates a stir.
Nadini's family have employed special wedding organisers to arrange the elaborate event, as do many wealthy families.
Planner Uzmaan Ghouse has also organised marriage parties for famous Sri Lankan cricketers.
"It takes about a year to plan a wedding," he says. "But there are some couples who have come to us around six months beforehand. Then it's a bit difficult."
It is not just the wedding ceremony that these days has a Western flavour.
Society is becoming more Westernised, too: this is a love marriage, not one arranged by the family.
Among the Sinhalese population especially, this is getting much more popular says chief bridesmaid (and fiancee of Hasitha) Dilini Gunawardane.
"If they [two young people] are in love and if their parents are not allowing it, somehow they try to convince their parents that 'this is the right person for me'," she says.
After toasts, speeches and a sumptuous meal, a carnival mood takes hold as the trumpeters and drummers of a traditional Sri Lankan band enter the hall.
The drums beat and the wedding crowd lifts Nadini high in the air and bounces her around before bride and groom are showered with confetti and foam.
And in a final nod to the twin traditions at play today, they leave in a horse and cart - before moving to a silver stretch limousine.

Chin Up Boy

We will my darl
We'll row in dark blue backwaters where lushness abounds
And opulent greenery and on the banks villas and a sense of belonging surrounds 

Local seafood will be our share
We will gorge on without a care
We'll awkwardly express emotions even if people stare
As such love, such gratitude, such pyres we've been through, in their lives is rare 


You once more a schoolboy
Me a schoolgirl, coy
We'll experience adventure and peace within
Until salvation and oneness are ours and we're free of all mental din

So put your chin up boy, put your chinchin! :)